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    Yeah being a lonely male of average or lesser looks on tinder will definitely improve your mental state.

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      Tinder is absolute trash and only helpful to attractive people who just want some one night stands. If you’re actually looking for a relationship, don’t install any apps and try to meet new people in real life instead.

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        Yeah they’re not intended to help people to get and stay in a healthy relationship. Their business model is maximal engagement and relationships stand in the way of that.

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        This is just provably untrue. You might have more relationship-weighted encounters off-app, but to say that it’s unhelpful if you don’t want a relationship is false.

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    I don’t think I’ve heard of a religion which describes its deity as non-judgemental.

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        Motherfucker, if you love us without paragon, just create us with a nature and environment that will not push us to sin, or better yet, create us directly in heaven. My little cousin who cares for ants in a terrarium has better supreme being ethics.

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    Reminds me of a MASH bit after Radar gets back from R&R (Season 8 Episode 4 Good-bye Radar part 1):

    Radar’s duffel bag with french perfume is tossed by some Marines and the bottle breaks.

    Hawkeye: Woohoo get a whiff of him; we’ve been standing around in a coal mine and he’s been wrestling with every woman in Tokyo.

    Radar: It was 4 guys that got me to smell like this.

    Col. Potter: As long as you had a good time.

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    You don’t have a chance on dating apps as a male except you belong to the top 1% most popular accounts.

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        Same. Whenever I see messages like his it just smacks of denial / coping strategies. “It’s all those promiscuous women’s fault I can’t get a girlfriend” fuckin grow up.

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          If on one given straight dating app, 66% of people are men and 33% are women, isn’t it logical to think that a lot of men are going to have a lot of difficulty to find anything of value? Incel logic is trash, but that doesn’t mean there aren’t things wrong with Tinder.