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The original was posted on /r/truscum by /u/Ambivalent-Bean on 2024-09-30 22:51:16+00:00.

I’m a transsex man who is phalloplasty-seeking in the future, so I follow a subreddit for it. It’s not just a subreddit for ftms/binary trans men. There are cis men in it too who have had to go the procedure for one reason or another. But the reason I’m here is because among us, there’s also a vocal population of either nonbinary people, people who bottom, people who don’t have bottom dysphoria but want a dick (or very commonly both sets of genitalia). A while back, there was an extensive argument bc people were butt-hurt that they were called “dude” or “bro” after posting or commenting in a literal subreddit for people who want a surgically (re)constructed penis. There are common posts where people are asking if surgeons do phallo without v-nectomy and/or cite extreme worries and anxieties about bottoming post phallo. No offense, but if you like your genitalia so much, maybe don’t get this operation??? It makes me uncomfortable as fuck because these narratives go out to larger society and confirm transphobes’ belief that we are confused, sick, or fetishistic. I can’t imagine the cis guys that go into this sub thinking they might find community and find futa-wannabes. It’s important to have a place centralized to discuss, share, and learn about this. But I wish there was a separate place for just guys to go.