• Notsosupermario@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    Trying for a baby for two an a half years now without success. Started IVF but the first embryo transplant failed. We are lucky we are relatively young and healthy but it sucks that we can’t conceive in a normal way (even though we don’t know why) and we have a lot of embryo’s still in the freezer. It sucks so much and everyone around me just have to look at each other and they’re pregnant. I feel so strongly it’s never going to happen for us.

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      1 year ago

      I can understand, I’m not so young and my husband is even older, we don’t have a family, just each other so we wanted a child so much… but I have a chronic illness so I’m starting to think that it will never happen… and I’m angry and jealous of all the people who have kids “just because” or by accident!

    • Call me Lenny/Leni@lemm.eeOP
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      1 year ago

      I know this might sound cliché, but is adoption considerable? Not that it always is, I know sometimes a government makes you depend on agencies that hurt the act of adoption or that it’s a wildcard or nothing is available, but as an aunt to foster children, I can say there is nothing that feels better.