I think I’ve figured out why some people are missing content in iris.
https://github.com/irislib/faq#feed
You need to go into settings, social network and turn filter incoming events by follow distance off.
It’s used as a kinda spam prevention to avoid seeing random people in nostr. Basically you see a friend of a friend comment but no further. Turn it off to see everyone.
Ill stick to and try the feed thing u mentioned