So I’m just going to say it - I don’t last particular long when I masturbate, maybe 2 or 3 minutes continuously. It just always made masturbating pretty uneventful for me - might I even say boring.
Lately however I’ve been wanting to change that a little. I started to try and edge to make everything last a little longer, which ended up causing quite a bit of ruined orgasms xD.
I also decided to buy some new sex toys. I ended up buying a prostate massager which MY GOD is probably the best purchase I’ve ever made. To my surprise I was able to make myself cum hands free which I’ve never been able to do!
Figuring out what I like has been such a blast and made masturbating much more enjoyable for me! Fuck I might even enjoy it a little too much >.<
So I wondered, most people always talk about what they enjoy during sex but let’s switch it up. What’s does the perfect night for yourself look like? Maybe I’ll even be able to get some new ideas from them!
Over the last few months, - reading. I never thought about reading as being an engaging arousal method. Maybe I’m too much of a connoisseur or something, but it is much harder for me to get aroused from reading. Albeit from literotica or AI, it must be much more engaging to take to climax, while also engaging me mentally on new levels I never experienced with visual media alone. It goes places that make me question much of my ethics and preconceptions in unique ways. This even helps me overcome some of the residual biases I was unable to address due to my ultra conservative religious extremist upbringing (that I reject completely).
Or, if you are not much of a reader (or even if you are): Check out audio. gwasi should keep you “busy” for a few months ;)
That’s definitely something interesting xD audio is always the best thing about porn, in my opinion it’s kind of boring without it. This doesn’t sound hehe like such a bad time
pro-tip: If you find a good, long story that you like, put it on your ebook-reader (Calibre will automatically convert HTML to whatever format your device wants). Ebook-reader in one hand frees up the other one…
I’ve always liked to read yaoi, it’s definitely no where near as “sophisticated” since it has engagement from both story and visuals. However it always did the trick for me!
I’ve never really considered AI for something like this, it sounds like a lot of fun! Do you by any chance have some you’d recommend?
I use Oobabooga Textgen WebUI (github) as the model loader, and usually an offline model that runs on my own hardware called Flat Dolphin Maid (because it is a merged model derived from 3 and abbreviated into this name). You can find this model on huggingface.co. I use the GGUF version and 4 bit quantization. It works well with 64GB of system memory, 12th gen i7, and a 16GBV 3080Ti GPU. I’m not sure what the practical limitations really are for minimum hardware. This is a 8×7B mixture of experts model.
Wait, can you use ChatGPT to generate erotic literature?! I would’ve thought that sort of thing would be a “sensitive topic” that would cause it to refuse.
Install text-generation-webui (aka “ooba”), use it to download a good model which your CPU or GPU can handle (e.g.
TheBloke/MythoMax-L2-Kimiko-v2-13B-GGUF), install sillytavern and configure it to use your ooba, then get some nice character cards from chub. (or directly use the ooba webinterface to tell the AI to write a hot story)I can go into further details if you are interested :)
Ooba is good but kind of technical. I’d instead recommend kobold.cpp for less savvy users who just want things to work. Just download the single exe (no install required) and download a model, then load it up and go!
Hell… at that rate, I’d take a whole write up.
I know what I’m going to be trying out today! Hopefully I can get everything working
Offline, open source AI is a thing. I’ve never used the proprietary data miner stuff like ChatGPT.
May I ask if you are a man? I’m a lady and reading is where it’s at for me. Videos are last on my list, stories are first. Since forever. Written erotica - imagination - still images- videos. I kind of want to make a sweeping generalization here, but not sure it’s true. The men I know who like porn like videos best, the women I know prefer written smut, but perhaps my small universe is not representative of most?
Okay but what was the new toy? My friend wants to know. My friend is my prostate.
To answer: find a great porn, play with a few toys, possibly edge for a while until an explosive orgasm.
Staying as close to the edge as possible for as long as possible—which usually ends up being somewhere between half an hour and an hour in my case, if I’m honestly keeping myself right on the edge the whole time—and then, as soon as I can’t possibly hold it anymore, do the exact opposite of ruining it. That is, whenever I’m about to cum whether I want to or not, I deliberately stop edging, speed up, and just make myself cum as hard as I can. I love dedicating an entire hour to making myself cum so hard I can no longer form complete sentences, one time, and then just laying there and being totally satisfied by that. It’s 1,000% worth the effort.
That sounds really freaking difficult. I’ve always had such a hard time controlling myself when I’m on the edge! I’ve got better at it but my self control is not what I want it to be xD
It does sound like such a good time! Maybe I’ll just give it a shot!
Anal dilators are nice. My anus gets a little more forgiving each time. This somewhat sates my libido and serves the additional purpose of preparing me for a pounding I hope to receive some day soon.
Recommendation for sex toy: e-stim plug
I never tried something like this before, but oh wow is this fun :) (and you can set whatever strength will keep you at your preferred arousal-level)
My perfect sexual session would be something that would last for about 30 minutes. Using various positions and all along my partner is also having a good time.
