Cyber Ghost@lemmygrad.ml to Comradeship // Freechat@lemmygrad.ml · 1 year agoWhen people say that someone looks average, what do they mean? What does the average man or average woman even look like?message-squaremessage-square34fedilinkarrow-up125arrow-down16
arrow-up119arrow-down1message-squareWhen people say that someone looks average, what do they mean? What does the average man or average woman even look like?Cyber Ghost@lemmygrad.ml to Comradeship // Freechat@lemmygrad.ml · 1 year agomessage-square34fedilink
minus-squarequeermunist she/her@lemmy.mllinkfedilinkarrow-up15arrow-down1·1 year agoUnattractive, yes, but not ugly. It’s more like “I personally don’t find you attractive, but I guess someone else might”
minus-squareCyber Ghost@lemmygrad.mlOPlinkfedilinkarrow-up7arrow-down1·edit-21 year agoIsnt the case that there will always be someone who finds someone attractive?
minus-squarequeermunist she/her@lemmy.mllinkfedilinkarrow-up7arrow-down1·1 year agoSure, but that doesn’t mean it’s always imaginable. People generally don’t realize how broad the human experience is. So what they actually mean is “I can imagine a hypothetical person being attracted to you”
Unattractive, yes, but not ugly.
It’s more like “I personally don’t find you attractive, but I guess someone else might”
Isnt the case that there will always be someone who finds someone attractive?
Sure, but that doesn’t mean it’s always imaginable. People generally don’t realize how broad the human experience is.
So what they actually mean is “I can imagine a hypothetical person being attracted to you”