I would like to know if there is an “official” way to set an account as disabled. For now, I am plan on posting this on Asklemmy, changing my password to some random string that I won’t remember, and then logging out. If I’d like to come back later, there’s a chance of my account being revived through the “forgot password” process.

I am leaving Lemmy for good. I have spent a few months here, and the first few months were nice and positive. But now it feels much more Reddit-like. Most active communication here is happening at posts that I find negative. All this negative stuff is detoriating my mental health. I’d instead prefer to stay happy and remain ignorant until I personally experience the issues being raised here.

Of course, a lot of people will disagree with this approach, and they are likely already coming up with comments to post on this thread that I’d find rude and thus negative. But I’ve seriously had enough of it.

I have a heavily filtered Reddit with a home page filled with people like me. The communities they are part of either don’t exist on Lemmy or are not sufficiently active. I will be active with these people until the old Reddit front-end reaches EoL. Please prefer to answer the first paragraph over the rest.

PS: please don’t judge me by my comments on my profile. I am a teenager and my personality is still maturing. I cringe at most things I do the next day after doing them.

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      I tried this with Reddit. It’s not that easy. I can’t stop thinking about it and open my fav subreddits in private mode to see what i miss

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        How is disabling (or deleting) an account going to help?

        I found it easy to stop participating on Reddit. Every time I went to post I was reminded that all I’m doing is adding value to some piece of shit shareholder who actively wants me gone because I don’t mindlessly scroll the front page (old.reddit and adblock). Why do anything on there when it’s just to make someone else rich?

        And Reddit made it easy for me to not even look when I’m on mobile by killing third party apps. If I can’t RiF then I choose no Reddit at all.

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    Of course, a lot of people will disagree with this approach

    There is not a single person here who is going to talk you out of leaving lmao, whether you stay or go affects no one but you. That being said, you’re a teen and you’re choosing to leave a social media platform due to mental health reasons. That’s quite far from being a bad thing. You’re doing what’s best for you and that’s good shit. You’ve matured further than you think.

    Every Lemmy account will have a Delete Account option located at the bottom of the main page of your settings, not sure if it’s automated or if an admin has to go in to clear em out manually, but trigger it, log out and you’re set!

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    Sounds like the solution you are looking for is self control. Nothing but yourself can stop you from just making another account.

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    I find it interesting that people can have so very different experiences on this network.

    Anyway, to delete your user, you’ll probably need to do it in a browser instead of through an app. Login to your instance feddit.nl through a browser.

    The “hamburger” menu in the top right. Click your username. Choose settings. Scroll down. Delete user.

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    To delete an account harken ye

    This helpful list of steps three

    First upon a color vote

    And painteth thy blazon upon thy boat

    Hence wilt thou gather thy bow

    And find a river quick of flow

    Reach heights to raise thy personhood

    And aim with care thou ever should

    Quickly light thy arrow aflame

    And watch the cinders of your fame

    Once these steps you have obeyed

    No trace of you shall be betrayed

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    There’s no way to stop yourself from making a new account

    If you really have no self control might be worth getting someone else to put a password on the app (assuming you use it on mobile)

    There are browser extensions that can block time wasting sites for you but you’ll always be able to disable them

    But hey you could always just start being horrendously racist until someone bans you

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    Yeah, leaving lemmy for reddit is one of the worst ideas I have ever heard. Leaving social media all together and even going out more would be a great idea though.

    In any case, good luck to you. The steps to delete your account have been mentioned plenty so I‘ll not repeat that.

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    Hey, can I pm you to ask about these like minded comms? Because I think similarly somewhat and wondered where to find places.

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    I agree and I’m happy for you. The impression for me is no one here is interested in or wants non political discussions. I feel the same.

    Don’t let anyone get you down.