Let’s say there’s someone I want to call Mr/Ms/Mrs [Name], but I don’t know their gender, is there a title I can use that doesn’t assume their gender?

  • AA5B@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    I almost never see it used anymore here in the US, either. Let’s just cancel that useless title.

    On the one hand it feels really weird when someone (not a child) calls me with that phrasing - that’s my Dad plus no one does that anymore

    But on the other hand it seems disrespectful for a child to call an adult by first name, and I don’t know a better alternative

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      1 year ago

      Why don’t we just replace honorifics with pronouns?

      She/Her Smith, please find enclosed your Kmart rewards card

      That solves the problem of where to put pronouns in formal settings