Not talking about being with one partner at a time. Talking about the idea of finding “the one” and being with them your whole life.

50% divorce rate. 97% of people (in the US) don’t wait till marriage, so most of us have multiple sexual partners prior to the one we stick with. Many have children with more than one partner.

How can anyone look at the world and think, yeah, there’s one that’s meant for everyone and just one?

Also hope I don’t come across disrespectful. If you do believe in monogamy, I am interested in hearing from you. I’m just buzzed and thinking about my own love life and being curt

Edit: Speaking to the idea that it’s the “natural order” or default. Not that it can’t work in individual circumstances, especially when we’ve been programmed for decades

  • DudePluto@lemm.eeOP
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    1 year ago

    do honestly believe in true love… it just happens that my personal one is also kind of a slut

    I’m happy that I read this sentence in my lifetime

    Looking at divorce rates as a bad thing is misleading, imo. A high divorce rate isn’t necessarily bad

    Oh absolutely. I don’t mean to moralize or demonize the issue. I just mean that, seeing as how as soon as divorce became socially acceptable it shot up to 50%, I’m not sure how people can view it as unnatural, I guess.

    Also your story is very sweet and every bit of what I want one day, so thank you for sharing. You have an interesting perspective