I much prefer being the bottom, so I’ll talk about my kinks here.

  • Tight body control - I like being restrained so that I can’t escape.
  • Intense pain - I’m a significant masochist.
  • CNC - Only with people I know very well.
  • CBT
  • Electro play
  • Not in a scene, but I like having kink adjacent things that are at least semi-permanent. For example, my piercings are all non-removable without specialized tools, and I also wear chastity (self-locked) pretty much all the time.

What are you into? Do you have any reasons for why you like the things you do?

  • LustSpun@lemmy.worldEnglish
    2·
    9 months ago

    So simple really: I just want people to see me naked. I mean from there, dominating or being dominated in front of the people on my life, friends, acquaintances, colleagues, all people who don’t know my secret fantasy.

  • Goddess Tex@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
    21·
    1 year ago

    **𝙺𝚒𝚗𝚔𝚜 TPE Financial Domination Blackmail Fantasy Homewreck Hypno Mindfuck Forced Feminization
    Sissy Training KeyHolder Tease and Denial Orgasm Control Foot Fetish Goddess Worship Humiliation Ignore Fetish

    • Crackhappy@lemmy.worldOPEnglish
      1·
      1 year ago

      I am so curious about financial domination. It’s so foreign an idea I can not get a handle on it. Would you mind explaining what you like about it?

        • tbblake@lemmy.worldEnglish
          1·
          1 year ago

          I think I know what it’s about but now that someone whose into it is here to explain I’d love to hear what it’s all about, and why you like it?

          • Goddess Tex@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
            1·
            1 year ago

            I will do my best, english is not my first language, that been said:

            Financial domination is frequently confused with selling content or expecting a tribute, but even though a finsub can send you money because, at the end of the day, it is what satisfy them, it’s more about having authority to control their finances; for example, they get their salary but you administer it, they can be keeping all, a part or nothing, that will depend on Dom/me’s decision; sustaining doubt is essential - danger is hot.

            A sub can offer to give you anything, to “lose their dignity”, to be exposed, blackmailed, kidnapped, etc. BUT money is rarely negotiable so, it’s not easy to get someone who is honest about their will to submit. That is why i like FinDom.