• ANGRY_MAPLE@sh.itjust.works
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    1 year ago

    I think that a lot of people here are confusing “introversion” with having social anxiety.

    Being an introvert doesn’t mean that you’re scared of socialization. It means you generally prefer quiet time over socializing.

    From Merriam Webster:

    A person whose personality is characterized by introversion : a typically reserved or quiet person who tends to be introspective and enjoys spending time alone.

    You can be both, but they are definitely not the same thing.

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      1 year ago

      Yes! I’m quite an introvert but I prefer a cashier so I can remain in my mind until I need to pay.

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        1 year ago

        I’m an introvert and I prefer self-checkout because I never have to pause my podcast. With regular check-out I have to pause it for a few minutes while they’re scanning my stuff in case they have a question like “do you need bags? do you have a loyalty card?” Other people might enjoy those interactions, or might want to make small-talk with the cashier. I just want to keep listening to the podcast.

        I’m willing to do a bit more work and spend a bit more time if I don’t have to stand there being attentive to the cashier.

      • kool_newt@lemm.ee
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        1 year ago

        Me too, I feel like there’s too much going on and people watching my “performance” of how well I self-checkout and I worry they’re getting mad at me for not being all smooth about it. It’s always crowed in that area too, not for me.

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        1 year ago

        Also, i dont know any of the produce codes and i have no idea what they have scallions classified under in their search system.

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      1 year ago

      Exactly. Generally, I have fun when talking to people, but social anxiety makes me prefer to stay at home and talk to less people.