So, what’s the utility of labeling yourself a “bad person”?
Everyone, everyone is imperfect, it’s the nature of being human. And we’re all imperfect in our own way, though we may share categories or degree of imperfection with others.
What’s more useful is to acknowledge when a poor choice is made, and striving to make better choices.
Negative self-talk doesn’t help.
Guess she’d like to see all her “unencrypted” chats published for the world to see…