The words [Equity-language] guides recommend or reject are sometimes exactly the same, justified in nearly identical language.
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Although the guides refer to language “evolving,” these changes are a revolution from above. They haven’t emerged organically from the shifting linguistic habits of large numbers of people.
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Prison does not become a less brutal place by calling someone locked up in one a person experiencing the criminal-justice system.
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The whole tendency of equity language is to blur the contours of hard, often unpleasant facts. This aversion to reality is its main appeal. Once you acquire the vocabulary, it’s actually easier to say people with limited financial resources than the poor.
I’m saying that there are plenty of things where context matters.
I’m also saying that I don’t always know all the context. I’m not omniscient. So if someone who DOES know tells me about the context, I learn and adjust. For example, I no longer use the phrase “gypped” to mean ripped off. I didn’t know it was a slur against the Romania, I learned, I adjusted.
Life is full of changes and it’s really not hard to make small adjustments if it lessens other people’s pain.
As for the brown bag thing, if African American leaders that I trust explain that it’s somehow offensive, I’ll look into it. They haven’t, so I haven’t.