• Otter@lemmy.ca
    shield
    M
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    8
    ·
    edit-2
    1 year ago

    Post is locked for cleanup.

    Post reopened, please keep the instance rules in mind while commenting

      • MapleEngineer@lemmy.caOP
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        10
        arrow-down
        1
        ·
        1 year ago

        I was hoping to turn into a magnetic monkey with 5G tracking chips. No such luck.

        The best few minutes of the pandemic for me was watching my 15 year old autistic daughter disassemble and completely humiliate a reality-denying mid-50s angry man at a farmers market. It was glorious.

          • MapleEngineer@lemmy.caOP
            link
            fedilink
            English
            arrow-up
            1
            ·
            1 year ago

            Thanks. She is pretty awesome. Three of the people there to witness it, two labour negotiators and a “consultant” to CSIS, approached me the next week to say how impressed they were. She was clearly angry but she knew the data and presented it effectively. He slunk off after that. It was true awesome.

  • Polar@lemmy.ca
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    116
    arrow-down
    1
    ·
    1 year ago

    I had a double lung transplant 6 years ago. You have to be EXTREMELY compliant to even get put on the list.

    So many meds and tests and shit stuff you need to follow EXACTLY, every 12 hours, every day, for the rest of your life.

    If you refuse a vaccine you’re never going to care for your new lungs. It’s not easy.

    • MapleEngineer@lemmy.caOP
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      40
      ·
      1 year ago

      Nope. That’s why the courts allow transplant coordinators to require that you be vaccinated. This vaccine was so incredibly safe that it’s ridiculous that she chose to die rather than getting it. I mean, literally the worst thing that could have happened to her because she got the vaccine happened to her because she didn’t get the vaccine.

      • Polar@lemmy.ca
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        29
        ·
        1 year ago

        This vaccine was so incredibly safe that it’s ridiculous that she chose to die rather than getting it.

        Unlike the transplant meds. Pretty large increase for cancer from them.

        Seems weird to refuse a COVID vaccine, but be fine swallowing a ton of meds every 12 hours that increases your risk of cancer significantly.

        Obviously me and many others accept that increased risk, because like you said, the other outcome is just dying straight up.

        In the end I’m glad the organ went to someone else who will respect and appreciate it.

        • MapleEngineer@lemmy.caOP
          link
          fedilink
          English
          arrow-up
          24
          arrow-down
          4
          ·
          edit-2
          1 year ago

          I have a background in chemistry. Early in the pandemic when all the anti-vax nonsense was at its peak I took a look at the ingredients in the three main vaccines in Canada (A-Z, M, and P). For the most part they all included:

          mRNA which we all have in our bodies all the time

          4 salts of which one was table salt

          4 fats of which one was cholesterol

          and sugar.

          That’s it.

          • cadekat@pawb.social
            link
            fedilink
            arrow-up
            10
            arrow-down
            6
            ·
            1 year ago

            While I do agree the vaccines are safe enough, saying “mRNA which we all have in our bodies all the time” is a bit misleading. The number of ways an mRNA strand could mess you up is astronomical.

            • MapleEngineer@lemmy.caOP
              link
              fedilink
              English
              arrow-up
              9
              arrow-down
              2
              ·
              1 year ago

              It is not misleading at all. Every single cell in our bodies contains mRNA at all times.

              What are these ways that mRNA could mess you up of which you speak?

              • cadekat@pawb.social
                link
                fedilink
                arrow-up
                6
                arrow-down
                8
                ·
                1 year ago

                Every single cell in our bodies contains mRNA at all times.

                That’s like saying computer viruses are fine because they’re made of code, which computers are already full of.

                We’re full of mRNA, sure, but we’re full of mRNA that’s supposed to be there.

                What are these ways that mRNA could mess you up of which you speak?

                I’m no biologist, but perhaps mRNA that creates a prion?

                • MapleEngineer@lemmy.caOP
                  link
                  fedilink
                  English
                  arrow-up
                  8
                  arrow-down
                  3
                  ·
                  1 year ago

                  Sure, mRNA could be created to create a prion but the mRNA in the vaccine does not. It creates a small fragment of protein similar to a trans-membrane protein on the covid virus.

                  I assumed that you had concrete information to share no just wild anti-vax fear mongering.

          • freeindv@monyet.cc
            link
            fedilink
            arrow-up
            1
            arrow-down
            1
            ·
            1 year ago

            Cool, guess my pancake breakfast works then. I’ve already got the mRNA and the breakfast takes care of the rest!

    • MystikIncarnate@lemmy.ca
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      36
      ·
      1 year ago

      Fact is, there’s more people in need of transplants and simply not enough viable organs to go around.

      I’m not going to fault the transplant committee for denying someone over a vaccine. Simply, why give this very finite and very precious resource to someone when they’re just going to go get themselves unalived over something as dumb as a 100% preventable disease or something just because they have a brain malfunction that makes them think vaccines are bad. Especially when so many other people are literally dying without the same organs, who are more than happy to follow doctors instructions to ensure they can live a long and prosperous life with the replacement they desperately need.

      It’s all rather silly.

      The thing that probably bothers me the most about organ transplants in general is that if cloning research and stem cell research was allowed to proceed properly, it’s entirely possible that science could find a way to grow you a replacement of your own organs… Apart from genetic problems causing organs to fail, it would almost completely eliminate the entire demand for organs. But no, some idiots don’t want cloning because it upsets their imaginary friend.

      On a related note, go fill out your donor card people. Even if you’re one of those “nobody will want my organs” type of people, do it anyways. The transplant people will figure out if your organs are viable when you no longer need them anymore. Let them figure that shit out for you. Just check the box to be a donor and don’t think about it any further.

      • Polar@lemmy.ca
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        20
        ·
        1 year ago

        On a related note, go fill out your donor card people. Even if you’re one of those “nobody will want my organs” type of people, do it anyways. The transplant people will figure out if your organs are viable when you no longer need them anymore. Let them figure that shit out for you. Just check the box to be a donor and don’t think about it any further.

        and the stupid rumour about “the doctors will kill me to save 8 others” is bullshit. I am glad my donor signed. His wife said she didn’t want him to, but seeing me live because of his selflessness made her reconsider, and she tells everyone to be a donor.

        • MystikIncarnate@lemmy.ca
          link
          fedilink
          English
          arrow-up
          4
          ·
          1 year ago

          That rumor flies in the face of the first rule doctors vow to uphold “do no harm”.

          IDK about you, but killing someone for their organs is pretty damn harmful for the individual “donating” their organs.

          It’s a different story if you’re braindead or hurt to the point of being capable of recovering at all, even with all of the modern science and medicine that is available.

      • Longpork_afficianado@lemmy.nz
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        9
        arrow-down
        1
        ·
        1 year ago

        Don’t just put it on your license either. In many places that isn’t legally binding. Have a conversation with your partner/children/parents who are going to have legal authority over your body while brain dead and tell them you want to be a donor.

  • sndmn@lemmy.ca
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    117
    arrow-down
    6
    ·
    edit-2
    1 year ago

    What do you mean I have to stop drinking gin if I want a liver transplant?

    Patient dies because she didn’t follow doctor’s advice.

    • Noodle07@lemmy.world
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      1
      arrow-down
      35
      ·
      1 year ago

      Why would they want a liver transplant in the first place if they didn’t drink gin? Doctors not thinking it through

      • gianni@lemmy.ca
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        26
        arrow-down
        1
        ·
        1 year ago

        Language will evolve naturally over time. But to claim that hoping your children are intelligent/physically healthy is a form of eugenics is absurd. If QAnon was left-leaning, this is the kind of shit they would say.

          • gianni@lemmy.ca
            link
            fedilink
            English
            arrow-up
            29
            arrow-down
            1
            ·
            1 year ago

            What I said and what you said are not the same thing.

            However, you win the gold medal for mental gymnastics.

            • MapleEngineer@lemmy.caOP
              link
              fedilink
              English
              arrow-up
              18
              arrow-down
              1
              ·
              1 year ago

              I believe that that man was made of straw.

              It’s funny when the trolls come out to play and no one picks up what they’re putting down.

              • gianni@lemmy.ca
                link
                fedilink
                English
                arrow-up
                12
                arrow-down
                1
                ·
                1 year ago

                I could definitely see this person being a troll. What’s wild though is that it seems the linked article was written in earnest.

                • MapleEngineer@lemmy.caOP
                  link
                  fedilink
                  English
                  arrow-up
                  16
                  arrow-down
                  1
                  ·
                  1 year ago

                  I think it’s really funny that no one is taking the bait. All of the responses have been simple, on point, and non-engaging. That’s how you deal with a troll.

                • Ransom@lemmy.ca
                  link
                  fedilink
                  English
                  arrow-up
                  0
                  arrow-down
                  1
                  ·
                  1 year ago

                  I wonder if you’d be able to take a step backward and consider that the linked article was written in earnest because it reflects a valid way of looking at the world that you may never have considered before. People disagreeing with you may not actually be trolling, but presenting their own valid beliefs. Look up disability studies, disability justice, and/or crip theory.

          • Ransom@lemmy.ca
            link
            fedilink
            English
            arrow-up
            1
            arrow-down
            5
            ·
            edit-2
            1 year ago

            I agree that hoping for an intelligent and physically healthy child definitely reflects an ableist worldview. This is basic disability/crip theory.

            For those who are going to argue: wanting an intelligent child is ableist because it implies that people who are intelligent have more worth than people who are not. It’s assigning the value of a person based on a pretty narrow and Western conceptualization of how people think. A person is valuable not because of their intelligence, but because of their existence — all are equally valuable because they’re people, and everyone is equal. The same goes, believe it or not, for physical disabilities, including health. If you disagree, then you think that not all people are equal, which is problematic, as problematic as hoping that your child is straight, or male, or has blonde hair and blue eyes.

            • SaakoPaahtaa@lemmy.world
              link
              fedilink
              arrow-up
              1
              arrow-down
              1
              ·
              1 year ago

              That’s retarded. People can want what they want. The implications and conclusion you jump to sre you-problems, not reflective of society.

  • some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    100
    arrow-down
    6
    ·
    1 year ago

    If you aren’t gonna take steps to protect yourself, you’re not worthy. There’s a long list and many people who will work hard to safeguard such a gift.

  • Avid Amoeba@lemmy.ca
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    98
    arrow-down
    7
    ·
    1 year ago

    “Taking this vaccine offends my conscience. I ought to have the choice about what goes into my body, and a lifesaving treatment cannot be denied to me because I chose not to take an experimental treatment for a condition — COVID-19 — which I do not have and which I may never have,” Lewis said in an affidavit.

    I guess she died with a clear conscious. 🙄

    Seriously though, taking an organ from the waitlist and then inevitably getting COVID while immunocompromised is … not very cool… for the next person on the waitlist.

    • rivalary@lemmy.ca
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      23
      arrow-down
      2
      ·
      1 year ago

      I wonder if she did die with a clear conscience considering she withdrew the money donated at her fundraiser (which I find hilarious that they have a “send prayers” button on the page) so that she could live. They said in an earlier update that they expect everyone to be fair minded and not request a refund, but people can reach out for a refund. Very manipulative. Also, she didn’t leave a will and the funds are “unfortunately” locked while they figure out her estate. The whole thing is worth a read, if you don’t mind puking a little in your mouth.

      • Grimpen@lemmy.ca
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        18
        arrow-down
        4
        ·
        1 year ago

        Ugh. $125k to get an organ transplant in the US without the vaccine. Also, the stupid tweet speculating that vaccines aren’t required to donate organs. Nope, they absolutely aren’t. Idiots. Imbeciles. Morons. It’s absolutely infuriating that people can be so willingly ignorant.

        Sure, hospitals willing and able to do organ transplants are rare, but that’s because organs to transplant are exceptionally rare. Other than kidney donations, and I think liver (IIRC), all organ transplants require someone to die, and to die under pretty controlled conditions so that their organs are still in a usable condition. For every organ transplant that occurs, there are a dozen others that die waiting.

        To give this woman an organ transplant is to deny someone else an organ transplant. The question is not whether she should get an organ transplant despite not taking every reasonable measure to increase the odds of that organ contributing to a longer and healthier life; but rather who else dies if she doesn’t want to take every reasonable measure.

        The fundamental calculus of organ donation is not everyone who needs one will get one. Who will benefit the most? This is absolutely the practical application of those philosophical paradoxes where you are asked to pick which life to save under various circumstances.

        Her whole case reeks of the entitlement that oozes from the Convoy protesters. I shouldn’t be inconvenienced, I shouldn’t have to compromise to help others. I should get to live, screw everyone else.

        I have a friend who got a lung transplant around 10 years ago. It’s a little unnerving how bloodthirsty I got whenever I saw an aggressive motorcycle driver. “I hope they are an organ donor” became my new curse. I wasn’t exactly wishing death upon people, but it was sobering to feel how mixed my feelings became knowing a friend was waiting for an organ donation.

        The inverse of this story of this woman dying is the story of everyone who skipped past her in line. One of those organs could have been hers. I’d like to hear stories about people whose lives were saved.

        • Dearche@lemmy.ca
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          9
          arrow-down
          2
          ·
          1 year ago

          Overall I agree. While every death is a tragedy, the reality is that if someone is denied a compatible organ, it means that there was someone who received it and was willing to go through more effort to ensure that they would survive the operation long term.

          COVID still exists, and it is still running rampant through the world, and it is still a legitimate threat to those with weakened immune systems, something that all organ recipients are.

          This is virtually the same as someone being denied a lung transplant because the refused to quit smoking. Someone died to give you that lung, and so if you’re not going to treat it with respect, you don’t deserve it as much as someone who will.

          That said, the numbers for transplants I’ve found are a lot more positive than I had expected: Organ transplants in Canada, 2021: Donations and need. That said, most organ transplants are from the deceased, and of those, a significant percentage were from Ontario and BC (adjusted for population) interestingly enough.

          Though with that said as well, in 2022 80% of donations were from the deceased, 52% were from family members, and compared to 2936 transplants, there were an additional 3777 people on the wait list. 701 Canadians were removed from the wait list that same year, 39% of whom had died while waiting. (https://www.cihi.ca/en/summary-statistics-on-organ-transplants-wait-lists-and-donors)

          The numbers are pretty uplifting overall, but until we can commercially grow organs (either in a vat or a donor pig) we need to take care of donated organs and maximize their value by preferentially giving them to those who are most likely to survive receiving them in the long term.

  • Omega_Jimes@lemmy.ca
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    85
    arrow-down
    5
    ·
    1 year ago

    They don’t give organs to alcoholics who don’t stop drinking either.

    Good luck getting a heart of you refuse to quit eating a hamburger an hour.

    Look, you have to pass a baseline level of taking care of yourself to qualify for an organ, and vaccinations are the bottom, base level first line of defense.

      • some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        15
        arrow-down
        2
        ·
        1 year ago

        What a dumnass. In her Pyrrhic victory not to be made into a 5g zombie (or whatever nonsense she might have believed) she stood her ground and died like an idiot. She gets no tears from me.

      • MapleEngineer@lemmy.caOP
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        4
        arrow-down
        1
        ·
        1 year ago

        I’ve had…4 different vaccines.

        A-Z sore arm for a day and a splitting headache for two days. ASA resolved it. M sore arm for three days and a mild headache. ASA resolved it. P x 2 no appreciable sore arm and no headache. PBiV - no appreciable sore arm and no headache.

      • Raxiel@lemmy.world
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        3
        ·
        1 year ago

        Don’t forget being banned from eating in restaurants where the owners put up “we don’t call 911” signs and Salad isn’t on the menu.

      • CeeBee@lemmy.world
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        1
        arrow-down
        4
        ·
        1 year ago

        This is such a paradoxical statement, because if she did get the vaccine willingly, then no one would consider her to be an idiot and thus see no issue with her getting the transplant.

        • ProvableGecko@lemmy.world
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          12
          arrow-down
          1
          ·
          1 year ago

          So what you are saying is if you don’t act like an idiot, nobody would perceive you as an idiot? Yes that is generally how society works.

  • JTode@lemmy.world
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    64
    arrow-down
    4
    ·
    1 year ago

    Transplants are incredibly strict about you not just wanting to live, but doing everything you can in order to live. It is good that the transplant went to someone with a sense of self-preservation. Utter waste on the likes of her.

    • Auli@lemmy.ca
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      11
      ·
      1 year ago

      What’s so dumb is they require a ton of shots already, and she would have had to take anti rejection drugs after. Like what would one more have been.

      • papertowels@lemmy.one
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        36
        ·
        1 year ago

        Seems like it’s been that way for a while…

        Transplant candidates must also receive the seasonal influenza and hepatitis B vaccines, follow other healthy behaviors, and demonstrate they can commit to taking the required medications following transplant.

        Nevermind you trying to misrepresent the subject by saying it’s a flu vaccine.

      • BradleyUffner@lemmy.world
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        35
        arrow-down
        1
        ·
        1 year ago

        Since getting the flu will probably kill you with all the immunosuppressants you have to take for life in order to not reject the transplant. They didn’t want to waste the organ on an idiot who can’t follow simple rules when someone who wants to live could use it

      • LeFantome@programming.dev
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        32
        arrow-down
        2
        ·
        1 year ago

        Why sentence somebody that wants to live to die ( by denying them a transplant ) so that the organ can be wasted on somebody making choices inconsistent with survival.

        All transplants have waiting lists. Getting an organ probably means denying one to somebody else.

        The headline should be “Idiot sacrifices their life opening a spot for somebody smarter to live”.

      • Natanael@slrpnk.net
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        20
        ·
        1 year ago

        Organ transplant recipients have a weakened immune system for months to years afterwards, in large part due to immune suppressants taken to prevent organ rejection.

        That does not go well with being unvaccinated in a pandemic. The vaccination gives you a fighting chance even with weakened immune system, but without you’re screwed.

      • Chinzon@beehaw.org
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        20
        arrow-down
        1
        ·
        1 year ago

        Not vaccinating against an infection puts you at dramatically increased risk of poor outcomes. When deciding who gets a lifesaving organ, you have to consider chance of success and the chance that person can follow through with the rigorous regimen for successful outcome. This is the same reason drug users are denied organs. This is nothing unusual or unethical. She can choose not to get vaccinated, and doctors will choose a more suitable recipient for the organ.

      • YeetPics@mander.xyz
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        19
        arrow-down
        1
        ·
        1 year ago

        When a life saving transplant you need has prerequisites and you refuse to meet them, you have refused the life saving transplant.

        Simple enough?

        • funkless_eck@sh.itjust.works
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          9
          ·
          1 year ago

          you can’t get a liver transplant if you continue to drink alcohol.

          or lung if you smoke

          freedom sometimes can’t be absolute, in perpetuity and without consequence.

      • FarceMultiplier@lemmy.ca
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        14
        ·
        1 year ago

        There is a very limited supply of organs. They need to give them to people who have the best chance of success and longevity.